Reader, you are interested in one of three things. One, knowing what's going on in my life; two, reading my mind; or three, just being entertained. Well, you are in luck, because I will address all of these, following:
First, I will not tell you everything going on in my life. It is privileged information. You'll have to ring me up to get the inside scoop. Sorry.
Second, you can never read my mind, because I disclose herein only a limited number of thoughts (censored, if you will). Too bad, so sad.
Third, I'm always funny. Oh wait, that's what my funny funny college friend would say. Me, I am only sometimes funny--and mostly I am too serious. At any rate, my apologies, because today is one of the latter instances.
Ah, now, having gone through all of that so logically, I realize that I have absolutely nothing to say to anyone. I guess my grand scheme for finding something to write about after a rather busy week has fallen to pieces. I can only rehash old thoughts, reprint old writing, or plagiarize. So never mind.
All right, all right, I'll admit that it irks me to have nothing to say, so I write anyway, though it's nothing. So, for the sake of not going more than a week without writing, I will recite a poem I wrote many years ago. The following extremely insightful piece is proof positive that yours truly is a poetic genius and of course deserves to be widely published an also named the next Poet Laureate. Also, I should be given royalties including a crown and scepter. [sigh...in my own little corner, in my own little chair...]
Autumn
When football season starts,
When you wake up before the sun,
When the first leaf flutters
And floats to frosted grass--
Then you know autumn is here.
When it's too cold to leave the windows open,
When you have to turn the thermostat on,
When you step outside in the morning
And there is a different smell, tingling--
Then you know autumn is here.
When the scurrying squirrels start carrying nuts,
When all the fawns have lost their spots,
When the Canadian geese are earnestly flying
Their practice runs above the trees--
Then you know autumn is here.
When you begin seeing pumpkins on doorsteps
When the grocery store freezers fill up with turkeys,
When all the flowers wither to brown
And the grass gives up its summer green--
Then you know autumn is here.
When the harvest moon peeks over the trees,
When the leaves crackle merrily under your feet,
When the days become shorter and shorter
And the nights grow longer and longer--
Then you know autumn is here.
And winter is on its way.
September 5, 2002
"Rats have a sense of humor. Rats, in fact, think that life is very funny. And they are right, reader. They are right." -Kate DiCamillo, The Tale of Despereaux
Thursday, October 7, 2010
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Road Construction and School Buses
My name is Michelle, and I am a bad driver. It has taken me years to admit. But, after watching one too many of my passengers shoot a hand out to the door or overhead handle while I'm flying around a curve, denial has finally given way to reality. And herein lies the truth.
I am writing this partly as a confession, but also partly as defense--a chance for you to see the rules of the road through my eyes. You see, I am a bad driver, but you will not die in my car. (And the serpent said unto the woman, Ye shall not surely die...) After all, I've got seven years of driving, no tickets and no (real) accidents.
So you know how there's the regular white speed limit signs, then there's the yellow ones that tell you to slow down around curves? Yeah, the yellow ones are just suggestions. You may have been told something different, but this is true. Besides, if you slow down to 55 in a 75 zone on the interstate, you'll be a) laughed out of existence and branded a grandma driver, b) rear-ended, and c) going way too slow for your own good (velocitation, schmelocitation). Now, the white speed limit signs that are preceded and succeeded by myriads of bright orange signs--including the ominous "Fines Double in Work Zones"--those you should pay attention to. Um, sort of--when it's Sunday and there's no one there, or when the car right in front of you is going 10 over, for heaven's sake don't be the prude who holds everyone up. If other people are going the same exact speed as you, you are not going to be the special one who gets pulled over. (Unless you're driving a red sports car).
So besides road construction, there are some things in driving that I hate and avoid at all costs. The first is speed bumps. For these I have much disdain. I'm sorry, but I cannot actually make myself slow to 2 miles per hour to go over speed bumps. If there is any chance I can go a different route or even miss it with two wheels, by golly, I'll take it. The second thing that gets my blood boiling is school buses (blast those things!). I think I'm allergic. When I see a big yellow bus ahead on the road...well, my skin starts to crawl, and the thing seems to grow to the size of the whole road, blocking out the sun of freedom. Because you know if you get stuck behind it, you will inevitably be taking an extra 30 minutes to get to your destination. And not only that, but it'll be the absolutely maddening stop-go-stop-go that honestly makes me contemplate gunning it into whatever vehicle is in front of me just to put myself out of misery.
And even that is not the worst when it comes to school buses. The worst is when you're driving on the other side of the road and there's a bus coming toward you. Ready, this happened to me the other day. It's slugging along toward me, right, going a "safe" speed and all, yellow caution lights blinking away. I slow down to 5 miles under the limit like a good driver, thinking, "Maybe the driver is a decent human being and won't stick out his stop sign 'til I pass, maybe I can pass it before it stops--I think I can I think I can..." Ah, but no. Yellow lights change to red, the sign pokes out, I'm going too fast to stop, I whiz past, the driver blares his dumb horn, and the kids look at me like I'm a psycho child-killer. No really, you should have seen their faces. That put me in a sour mood for an hour. Fortunately, I am no longer bitter. You know, the only thing on my record is a warning for failing to yield to a school bus. I was on the other side of the road of a blasted four-lane highway! For the love of peace! No, I'm not bitter about that anymore, either.
There you have it all. Most of it. I guess there were a couple of incidences in which I may have almost changed lanes into anther car. And this one time I ripped off part of my bumper with a tree. And I may or may not be the best judge of changing stoplights or slow down enough in dodgy weather. Oh, and I do have this naive belief that I am invincible to deer and other common roadkill. I chalk it all up to my cherished love of living on the edge.
So now you have the truth. Judge me as you will. But I maintain that, though I am admittedly a bad driver, though I have made many hearts pound an palms sweat, I will not kill you. I will not injure your back or give you a concussion. And I will not run over your dog. Provided it is not a particularly obnoxious dog.
I am writing this partly as a confession, but also partly as defense--a chance for you to see the rules of the road through my eyes. You see, I am a bad driver, but you will not die in my car. (And the serpent said unto the woman, Ye shall not surely die...) After all, I've got seven years of driving, no tickets and no (real) accidents.
So you know how there's the regular white speed limit signs, then there's the yellow ones that tell you to slow down around curves? Yeah, the yellow ones are just suggestions. You may have been told something different, but this is true. Besides, if you slow down to 55 in a 75 zone on the interstate, you'll be a) laughed out of existence and branded a grandma driver, b) rear-ended, and c) going way too slow for your own good (velocitation, schmelocitation). Now, the white speed limit signs that are preceded and succeeded by myriads of bright orange signs--including the ominous "Fines Double in Work Zones"--those you should pay attention to. Um, sort of--when it's Sunday and there's no one there, or when the car right in front of you is going 10 over, for heaven's sake don't be the prude who holds everyone up. If other people are going the same exact speed as you, you are not going to be the special one who gets pulled over. (Unless you're driving a red sports car).
So besides road construction, there are some things in driving that I hate and avoid at all costs. The first is speed bumps. For these I have much disdain. I'm sorry, but I cannot actually make myself slow to 2 miles per hour to go over speed bumps. If there is any chance I can go a different route or even miss it with two wheels, by golly, I'll take it. The second thing that gets my blood boiling is school buses (blast those things!). I think I'm allergic. When I see a big yellow bus ahead on the road...well, my skin starts to crawl, and the thing seems to grow to the size of the whole road, blocking out the sun of freedom. Because you know if you get stuck behind it, you will inevitably be taking an extra 30 minutes to get to your destination. And not only that, but it'll be the absolutely maddening stop-go-stop-go that honestly makes me contemplate gunning it into whatever vehicle is in front of me just to put myself out of misery.
And even that is not the worst when it comes to school buses. The worst is when you're driving on the other side of the road and there's a bus coming toward you. Ready, this happened to me the other day. It's slugging along toward me, right, going a "safe" speed and all, yellow caution lights blinking away. I slow down to 5 miles under the limit like a good driver, thinking, "Maybe the driver is a decent human being and won't stick out his stop sign 'til I pass, maybe I can pass it before it stops--I think I can I think I can..." Ah, but no. Yellow lights change to red, the sign pokes out, I'm going too fast to stop, I whiz past, the driver blares his dumb horn, and the kids look at me like I'm a psycho child-killer. No really, you should have seen their faces. That put me in a sour mood for an hour. Fortunately, I am no longer bitter. You know, the only thing on my record is a warning for failing to yield to a school bus. I was on the other side of the road of a blasted four-lane highway! For the love of peace! No, I'm not bitter about that anymore, either.
There you have it all. Most of it. I guess there were a couple of incidences in which I may have almost changed lanes into anther car. And this one time I ripped off part of my bumper with a tree. And I may or may not be the best judge of changing stoplights or slow down enough in dodgy weather. Oh, and I do have this naive belief that I am invincible to deer and other common roadkill. I chalk it all up to my cherished love of living on the edge.
So now you have the truth. Judge me as you will. But I maintain that, though I am admittedly a bad driver, though I have made many hearts pound an palms sweat, I will not kill you. I will not injure your back or give you a concussion. And I will not run over your dog. Provided it is not a particularly obnoxious dog.
Friday, September 24, 2010
Belief
Being a Christian is an interesting experience, for lack of a better word. Interesting...difficult in unexpected ways, often counter-intuitive, confusing, yet at moments so clear. I've felt all those things--the questioning, understanding--in a recurring pattern over the years, even while still believing in the basic Christian shebang and trying to "live it." But I guess I never seriously noticed how unique (ah, there's the word) my place in the world is--as someone who has deeply-held beliefs--until I thought about it from the perspective of someone who doesn't share those beliefs.
If you think about it, the vast majority of the world disagrees with your beliefs, dear reader. I mean, don't quote me on that, but it just seems to me that even though you can find them, you're more likely--probability-wise--to bump up against people who are not of one mind with you at the religious and philosophical level. And, to me, that is the level of life that is the most real. Belief, influenced by this, that, and the other, is the deepest part of a person. And it is therefore the most personal and fragile. Yet people see evidence of your belief every day, because it also happens to be the strongest influence on a person's character and actions. Whether you realize it or not.
Admittedly, my beliefs typically sit comfortably and out of the way on the back burner, in a file cabinet in some corner of my mind. Life has the potential of getting a little messy when they're brought up to the front. But what happens when they are dredged up? I like sharing my beliefs, despite the fact that they are so personal and thinking hard about them frequently launches me into perplexity. The truth is, I hate the thought that I could turn into a close-minded, brainwashed, ultra-religious busybody, so I use my own and other people's tough questions to force me to test my beliefs and the actions that stem from them. I mean, if we're ultimately searching for the Truth rather than support for some pet religion, that serious testing and sharpening can only get us closer to it. Difficult questions are disconcerting but necessary. That being said, if you ever want to challenge to something I believe or do, dear reader, please do not hold back. (If you're a Bible-reader, glance at Proverbs 27:17.) [A small note on Truth: I suppose that the existence of only one Truth is a belief in itself. I'd address this more in depth, except for the fact that it's ridiculously difficult to do any kind of philosophizing following the assumption that Truth is relative. Here's an excellent example of a hole in my beliefs--meaning that I believe something that I can't necessarily explain.]
Living in this way--which results in flux of belief and more often in flux of how to reconcile belief and action--gives me a singular position and perspective. As an academically-minded human being, I sift through the theologies and philosophies of my friends, church leaders, professors, the Bible itself, and anything else I can get from God himself. More intuition0based people look at experiences of life and heart. And because I'm on my own trajectory, doing everything I can to find what's really good and real and how I should live after knowing that--well, I'm unique. I'm unique because (moment of obvious truth) no one has experienced quite what I have. And the same is true for you, dear reader (I hope you saw that coming). It's sort of unnerving to be on your own like that, but that's life. I mean, it's impossible to really know someone else's mind, so we have to make up our own minds. And besides, isn't it pretty shallow to believe something just because someone else does and you don't want to be alone? (Aha! Another tenet of mine, one that stems from my belief in the value of YOU as an individual who can think for yourself. If you believe that, you've got to believe in the above idea, too.)
The point of all this is, it's one of the very healthy things in life to know what you believe and why you believe, and what makes you act and think the way you do. At any rate, I hope for me and for you that, in the midst of all the crazy and equally sane beliefs out there, we all get closer to knowing what's really real, whatever that may be, and have the guts to stick up for our own beliefs and actions.
In case you're wondering, my recent deep-thinking reflections (if my blog serves as any indication of my thoughts--don't worry, though, I'm sure I'll snap out of it soon) have been influenced by several recent theological discussions as well as reading the book Blue Like Jazz (most of which I strongly agree and identify with) and articles in the magazine Relevant, including this one I looked at today.
If you think about it, the vast majority of the world disagrees with your beliefs, dear reader. I mean, don't quote me on that, but it just seems to me that even though you can find them, you're more likely--probability-wise--to bump up against people who are not of one mind with you at the religious and philosophical level. And, to me, that is the level of life that is the most real. Belief, influenced by this, that, and the other, is the deepest part of a person. And it is therefore the most personal and fragile. Yet people see evidence of your belief every day, because it also happens to be the strongest influence on a person's character and actions. Whether you realize it or not.
Admittedly, my beliefs typically sit comfortably and out of the way on the back burner, in a file cabinet in some corner of my mind. Life has the potential of getting a little messy when they're brought up to the front. But what happens when they are dredged up? I like sharing my beliefs, despite the fact that they are so personal and thinking hard about them frequently launches me into perplexity. The truth is, I hate the thought that I could turn into a close-minded, brainwashed, ultra-religious busybody, so I use my own and other people's tough questions to force me to test my beliefs and the actions that stem from them. I mean, if we're ultimately searching for the Truth rather than support for some pet religion, that serious testing and sharpening can only get us closer to it. Difficult questions are disconcerting but necessary. That being said, if you ever want to challenge to something I believe or do, dear reader, please do not hold back. (If you're a Bible-reader, glance at Proverbs 27:17.) [A small note on Truth: I suppose that the existence of only one Truth is a belief in itself. I'd address this more in depth, except for the fact that it's ridiculously difficult to do any kind of philosophizing following the assumption that Truth is relative. Here's an excellent example of a hole in my beliefs--meaning that I believe something that I can't necessarily explain.]
Living in this way--which results in flux of belief and more often in flux of how to reconcile belief and action--gives me a singular position and perspective. As an academically-minded human being, I sift through the theologies and philosophies of my friends, church leaders, professors, the Bible itself, and anything else I can get from God himself. More intuition0based people look at experiences of life and heart. And because I'm on my own trajectory, doing everything I can to find what's really good and real and how I should live after knowing that--well, I'm unique. I'm unique because (moment of obvious truth) no one has experienced quite what I have. And the same is true for you, dear reader (I hope you saw that coming). It's sort of unnerving to be on your own like that, but that's life. I mean, it's impossible to really know someone else's mind, so we have to make up our own minds. And besides, isn't it pretty shallow to believe something just because someone else does and you don't want to be alone? (Aha! Another tenet of mine, one that stems from my belief in the value of YOU as an individual who can think for yourself. If you believe that, you've got to believe in the above idea, too.)
The point of all this is, it's one of the very healthy things in life to know what you believe and why you believe, and what makes you act and think the way you do. At any rate, I hope for me and for you that, in the midst of all the crazy and equally sane beliefs out there, we all get closer to knowing what's really real, whatever that may be, and have the guts to stick up for our own beliefs and actions.
In case you're wondering, my recent deep-thinking reflections (if my blog serves as any indication of my thoughts--don't worry, though, I'm sure I'll snap out of it soon) have been influenced by several recent theological discussions as well as reading the book Blue Like Jazz (most of which I strongly agree and identify with) and articles in the magazine Relevant, including this one I looked at today.
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Philosophy
"People come, people go. Nothing ever happens." Isn't that beautiful? It sounds so profound. It reminds me that life can be life even though nothing much happens. You just have to unfocus your eyes and look at all the normal stuff.
How beautiful...to be driving in the rain...in that 8 o'clock evening glow and fading...thinking about the people you met with today, the interactions and things that passed...cold without, warm within...the smell of car heater which reminds you of winter which reminds you of Christmas...thinking about the people in your life and in the life you had last year and years ago...listening to a call-in radio show where people make song dedications to a wonderful grown-up daughter or a long-lost friend...feeling so thankful for the good friends you have and the people who admire you and the strangers you can have cheerful airy conversations with...feeling the goodness, feeling the warmth and soul of the rain and of the movement and of the twilight...
All of this happened to me tonight, in case you were in doubt. And don't you sometimes experience something like it? Don't you sometimes have those moments when you feel and you're glad you feel, and it's a nice feeling and you want it to go on forever so that you feel nice forever? And--but maybe it's just me--don't you start thinking, then, about why it's so nice, and you start realizing how incredibly lucky you are that, somehow, the Nothing that makes you feel that way is really Everything at the moment? Those are the times when I remember to tell myself, "Slow down you crazy child..."
It's Mad how little things--a car heater, autumn rain, that time between day and dark--can add depth and interest to life. I know that I cannot make you believe me, dear reader, and I know that you cannot make yourself know what I'm talking about (I am the first to admit to being a stubbornly independent thinker). But I need to tell you that even though life is sometimes a Hole (what I wrote several days ago attests to that), in life you can also find beauty. (Really.) Maybe even Plato's world of Forms, capital-B Beauty. The point is, I hope you don't miss it. I hope that now and again you slow down and quit concentrating on having a good time and going to work and dealing with your issues. Slow down, think deeply, search for feelings, for answers--heck, search for questions. Reach out for something deeper than This. I say, why waste life by living only on the surface?
How beautiful...to be driving in the rain...in that 8 o'clock evening glow and fading...thinking about the people you met with today, the interactions and things that passed...cold without, warm within...the smell of car heater which reminds you of winter which reminds you of Christmas...thinking about the people in your life and in the life you had last year and years ago...listening to a call-in radio show where people make song dedications to a wonderful grown-up daughter or a long-lost friend...feeling so thankful for the good friends you have and the people who admire you and the strangers you can have cheerful airy conversations with...feeling the goodness, feeling the warmth and soul of the rain and of the movement and of the twilight...
All of this happened to me tonight, in case you were in doubt. And don't you sometimes experience something like it? Don't you sometimes have those moments when you feel and you're glad you feel, and it's a nice feeling and you want it to go on forever so that you feel nice forever? And--but maybe it's just me--don't you start thinking, then, about why it's so nice, and you start realizing how incredibly lucky you are that, somehow, the Nothing that makes you feel that way is really Everything at the moment? Those are the times when I remember to tell myself, "Slow down you crazy child..."
It's Mad how little things--a car heater, autumn rain, that time between day and dark--can add depth and interest to life. I know that I cannot make you believe me, dear reader, and I know that you cannot make yourself know what I'm talking about (I am the first to admit to being a stubbornly independent thinker). But I need to tell you that even though life is sometimes a Hole (what I wrote several days ago attests to that), in life you can also find beauty. (Really.) Maybe even Plato's world of Forms, capital-B Beauty. The point is, I hope you don't miss it. I hope that now and again you slow down and quit concentrating on having a good time and going to work and dealing with your issues. Slow down, think deeply, search for feelings, for answers--heck, search for questions. Reach out for something deeper than This. I say, why waste life by living only on the surface?
Friday, September 17, 2010
Ka-ching!
THAT IS THE SOUND OF A CASH REGISTER. IT SYMBOLIZES AN EVENT IN WHICH SOMEONE STARTS RAKING IN THE BIG BUCKS, ROLLING IN THE DOUGH. TODAY IT SYMBOLIZES ONE YOUNG TEACHER'S WINDFALL.
(to continue reading this story, click here)
In breaking news, on the Michelle front we have caught sight of a storm building up above the gray house on the Loop. It is a storm not of rain or wind, but of wealth. The wealth seems to have originated about the time of the phone call asking her to join the staff of a small daycare. Since then, it has built to a roar ten thousand* dollars strong, and growing. After consulting with our analysts, we can predict the dissolution of her student loans within the next two months,** and she will be moving out of her mother's basement at the end of three. This surprising development is due mainly to the acquisition of literally hundreds*** of substitute teaching jobs, which pay at an extremely lucrative**** rate. The storm has aptly been named the Debt-Crusher. And, in a wonderful stroke of Providence, this storm promises to be rewarding not only fiscally, but also intrinsically and professionally. Stay tuned for more on these heart-warming stories.
Some figures have been exaggerated for dramatic effect. However, all other details are accurate.
*four hundred **ten years ***roughly three ****ludicrous
(to continue reading this story, click here)
In breaking news, on the Michelle front we have caught sight of a storm building up above the gray house on the Loop. It is a storm not of rain or wind, but of wealth. The wealth seems to have originated about the time of the phone call asking her to join the staff of a small daycare. Since then, it has built to a roar ten thousand* dollars strong, and growing. After consulting with our analysts, we can predict the dissolution of her student loans within the next two months,** and she will be moving out of her mother's basement at the end of three. This surprising development is due mainly to the acquisition of literally hundreds*** of substitute teaching jobs, which pay at an extremely lucrative**** rate. The storm has aptly been named the Debt-Crusher. And, in a wonderful stroke of Providence, this storm promises to be rewarding not only fiscally, but also intrinsically and professionally. Stay tuned for more on these heart-warming stories.
Some figures have been exaggerated for dramatic effect. However, all other details are accurate.
*four hundred **ten years ***roughly three ****ludicrous
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
Jeesh, Kids These Days
Me: Hey, so do those cell phones actually work?
Girl 1 and Girl 2: Yeah.
Me: Like, when I see you both talking on them at the same time walking three feet apart you're talking to each other...over the phone?
Girl 1: Yeah, sometimes. [mischievously] But I talk to this boy, too.
Me [also mischievously, unable to resist opening this can of worms]: Oh, you have a boyfriend!
Girl 2: She wishes!
Girl 1: Yeah, he's really cute and... [she chatters on about his affable qualities for a minute, with Girl 2 adding in the occasional detail]
Girl 2 [with a feminine grin]: Yeah, and I like a guy, too! His name is... [see above about chattering on]
Me [amused but mostly astonished]: Wait, how old are you guys?!
Girl 1: Nine.
Girl 2: Eleven.
Girl 1: She's nine, too.
[I emphatically state my opinion on the inappropriateness of nine-year-old girls having boyfriends. The following phrase was used: "For goodness gracious heaven's sakes!"]
Boy listening in: Hey, Miss Michelle. I'm seven and I have a girlfriend!
Me [even more astonished]: OH REALLY! [my righteous indignation continues for another few minutes; however, its desired effect of molding young minds was clearly doomed, as I was outnumbered one fogie to a whole playground of children under the age of 10]
Girl 1 [nearly bursting with the drama]: This one time, J.D. was like...
Me: Wait, what's his name, J.D.?
Girl 2: No, it's Rey-D.
Girl 1: Like R-E-Y then a little thingy, you know, then a D. [I think, Oh for heaven's sake--but at least the ridiculous name fits in with this ridiculous story.] But there's this other girl Marissa she's really blond and like flips her hair and talks all flirty she's really pretty but really annoying anyway she also likes him and...
Me: Oh, so you have some competition!
Girl 2: Yeah and this girl Shauntay like my guy too.
Me: Oho!
Girl 1: Anyway so Marissa actually wrote him a love note. [beat] It was like 'It's really fun to be in your class, you're really funny and hot, do you wanna go out?' [I'm thinking, Love note, huh? Ah, to be so naive.] But he's like whatever.... [she and Girl 2 continue talking about this other girl, and I'm not understanding half of what they're saying; suffice it to note that the pair are absolutely reveling in their drama, relishing every expression on their hearer's face. Neither do they seem to be aware that they are not even TEENAGERS yet! Really, it's all a game. It's a game, though they probably don't even realize it.]
[All names are fudged for the protection of persons in question. And after all, these tech-savvy, too-old-for-their-age young ladies could be reading this. We must take such precautions in this degenerate age.]
I suppose I encouraged this foolishness by lending an ear. But the fact is, I was in shock. Gracious me, what is this world coming to? Right now, I am an old lady sitting on the porch with my knitting, peering through half-moon glasses as the young ladies brazenly gad about the town, showing their ankles and actually going inside the young men's houses. Young ladies never behaved so when I was one! These new fancy girls give absolutely no thought to tradition or delicacy. It is downright scandalous, that's what!
Girl 1 and Girl 2: Yeah.
Me: Like, when I see you both talking on them at the same time walking three feet apart you're talking to each other...over the phone?
Girl 1: Yeah, sometimes. [mischievously] But I talk to this boy, too.
Me [also mischievously, unable to resist opening this can of worms]: Oh, you have a boyfriend!
Girl 2: She wishes!
Girl 1: Yeah, he's really cute and... [she chatters on about his affable qualities for a minute, with Girl 2 adding in the occasional detail]
Girl 2 [with a feminine grin]: Yeah, and I like a guy, too! His name is... [see above about chattering on]
Me [amused but mostly astonished]: Wait, how old are you guys?!
Girl 1: Nine.
Girl 2: Eleven.
Girl 1: She's nine, too.
[I emphatically state my opinion on the inappropriateness of nine-year-old girls having boyfriends. The following phrase was used: "For goodness gracious heaven's sakes!"]
Boy listening in: Hey, Miss Michelle. I'm seven and I have a girlfriend!
Me [even more astonished]: OH REALLY! [my righteous indignation continues for another few minutes; however, its desired effect of molding young minds was clearly doomed, as I was outnumbered one fogie to a whole playground of children under the age of 10]
Girl 1 [nearly bursting with the drama]: This one time, J.D. was like...
Me: Wait, what's his name, J.D.?
Girl 2: No, it's Rey-D.
Girl 1: Like R-E-Y then a little thingy, you know, then a D. [I think, Oh for heaven's sake--but at least the ridiculous name fits in with this ridiculous story.] But there's this other girl Marissa she's really blond and like flips her hair and talks all flirty she's really pretty but really annoying anyway she also likes him and...
Me: Oh, so you have some competition!
Girl 2: Yeah and this girl Shauntay like my guy too.
Me: Oho!
Girl 1: Anyway so Marissa actually wrote him a love note. [beat] It was like 'It's really fun to be in your class, you're really funny and hot, do you wanna go out?' [I'm thinking, Love note, huh? Ah, to be so naive.] But he's like whatever.... [she and Girl 2 continue talking about this other girl, and I'm not understanding half of what they're saying; suffice it to note that the pair are absolutely reveling in their drama, relishing every expression on their hearer's face. Neither do they seem to be aware that they are not even TEENAGERS yet! Really, it's all a game. It's a game, though they probably don't even realize it.]
[All names are fudged for the protection of persons in question. And after all, these tech-savvy, too-old-for-their-age young ladies could be reading this. We must take such precautions in this degenerate age.]
I suppose I encouraged this foolishness by lending an ear. But the fact is, I was in shock. Gracious me, what is this world coming to? Right now, I am an old lady sitting on the porch with my knitting, peering through half-moon glasses as the young ladies brazenly gad about the town, showing their ankles and actually going inside the young men's houses. Young ladies never behaved so when I was one! These new fancy girls give absolutely no thought to tradition or delicacy. It is downright scandalous, that's what!
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Challenge
I've been warned.
I've been warned that my chosen career will drive me up a wall.
I've been warned that Children cry and get into stupid fights and have runny noses and always, always, always, need attention:
"Miss Michelle, watch me on the slide! Look how good I fold my hands! Miss Bennett, see my nice handwriting? Miss Bennett, I need a pencil, I need a band-aid, I have to go to the bathroom, she hit me, he stuck his tongue out at me, I want to play with my friends, I want to draw."
But you know what? I like it. All of it.
I should have known that every day I'd go home exhausted.
I should have known that every day my head would ring with the sounds of a hundred battles.
"You need to pay attention, please follow directions, be kind to your friends, leave the woodchips on the ground, no you may not take that bug inside, it's time to be quiet."
But guess what? I still like it. From A to Z.
Here's a good one. Two weeks ago:
I'd been warned that this little guy is a Handful.
I'd been warned by the raised eyebrows and implicative looks of the teachers.
I'd been warned by the spelling of the word "T-A-N-T-R-U-M" and mouthing of the word "Screamer."
I'd been warned, and I met him with a wide grin that masqueraded my apprehension.
But you know, when he started screaming so hard his lungs almost came out his throat, something in my mind kicked in and all I could think was, "poor guy," and I did what needed to be done.
I should have known that my years of education would come through for me.
I should have trusted in the reason I became a B.A. in the first place.
Here's today:
I've been warned that the new girl is a Wreaker of Havoc.
I've been warned by the report of her history of violence.
I've been warned by the defiance in her stare and in her lips.
I've been warned by her emphatic "NO!" and her forceful, spit-watered words.
I've been warned by the 40-minute time-out vigil (a ritual that was ended with the utterance of one small, simple word, "Sorry").
But you know what? All that does is make me smile a more determined smile.
I won't allow the warnings to get to me--I'll just take them in stride.
I won't look at the danger signs and think, "Lost cause--pack up, go home."
I'm stronger than this wonderful little girl.
I'm more stubborn.
I will win.
I will win because I have to win if she is to have a fighting chance in the world.
You see, that's my Job.
But you know, it's a bit more than a job. It's rather a Calling.
Despite the warnings, despite the signs, after all the battles and exhaustion and frustration, there's still nothing I'd rather do.
Did you hear me? There's nothing I'd rather do.
You're right, that is not normal.
There's got to be something pumping into me that kind of passion and energy.
Someone's got to have had this planned out.
Why else would I cling to the thin thread of hope that there is Goodness and Change in even a Handful, even a Wreaker of Havoc?
Why else would I, rational being that I am, risk my sanity to take on challenge after challenge, day after day?
Why indeed?
I've been warned that my chosen career will drive me up a wall.
I've been warned that Children cry and get into stupid fights and have runny noses and always, always, always, need attention:
"Miss Michelle, watch me on the slide! Look how good I fold my hands! Miss Bennett, see my nice handwriting? Miss Bennett, I need a pencil, I need a band-aid, I have to go to the bathroom, she hit me, he stuck his tongue out at me, I want to play with my friends, I want to draw."
But you know what? I like it. All of it.
I should have known that every day I'd go home exhausted.
I should have known that every day my head would ring with the sounds of a hundred battles.
"You need to pay attention, please follow directions, be kind to your friends, leave the woodchips on the ground, no you may not take that bug inside, it's time to be quiet."
But guess what? I still like it. From A to Z.
Here's a good one. Two weeks ago:
I'd been warned that this little guy is a Handful.
I'd been warned by the raised eyebrows and implicative looks of the teachers.
I'd been warned by the spelling of the word "T-A-N-T-R-U-M" and mouthing of the word "Screamer."
I'd been warned, and I met him with a wide grin that masqueraded my apprehension.
But you know, when he started screaming so hard his lungs almost came out his throat, something in my mind kicked in and all I could think was, "poor guy," and I did what needed to be done.
I should have known that my years of education would come through for me.
I should have trusted in the reason I became a B.A. in the first place.
Here's today:
I've been warned that the new girl is a Wreaker of Havoc.
I've been warned by the report of her history of violence.
I've been warned by the defiance in her stare and in her lips.
I've been warned by her emphatic "NO!" and her forceful, spit-watered words.
I've been warned by the 40-minute time-out vigil (a ritual that was ended with the utterance of one small, simple word, "Sorry").
But you know what? All that does is make me smile a more determined smile.
I won't allow the warnings to get to me--I'll just take them in stride.
I won't look at the danger signs and think, "Lost cause--pack up, go home."
I'm stronger than this wonderful little girl.
I'm more stubborn.
I will win.
I will win because I have to win if she is to have a fighting chance in the world.
You see, that's my Job.
But you know, it's a bit more than a job. It's rather a Calling.
Despite the warnings, despite the signs, after all the battles and exhaustion and frustration, there's still nothing I'd rather do.
Did you hear me? There's nothing I'd rather do.
You're right, that is not normal.
There's got to be something pumping into me that kind of passion and energy.
Someone's got to have had this planned out.
Why else would I cling to the thin thread of hope that there is Goodness and Change in even a Handful, even a Wreaker of Havoc?
Why else would I, rational being that I am, risk my sanity to take on challenge after challenge, day after day?
Why indeed?
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